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22 Years of WordPress, 16 Years With Me

Dear WordPress,

There are very few things in life I get absolutely hooked on, and you’re one of them.

Blogging was such a big part of my life growing up, and you were there for most of it.

Sixteen years ago, I stumbled into your world. Back then, social media was barely a thing and blogging was the OG way to share thoughts online.

My very first platform was Multiply. But when it shut down, I found you. I also explored Blogger (aka Blogspot) and bounced between the two for a while. My posts are kind of scattered because of that. I liked Blogspot too, but you felt like home. I loved how I could customize and tinker with the backend even when there were no tutorials, no YouTube walkthroughs, and no one guiding me. I wasn’t a custom coder or anything, but it felt like discovering this hidden creative playground. Every tweak felt like a little win, and I just kept following my curiosity.

In 2012, my then-boyfriend (now husband) TJ gifted me my very first domain. It’s not active anymore, but it’s something I’ll always be grateful for. I couldn’t think of a good blog name at the time even though I had always wanted one. So I stuck with it for a few years and even handwrote the name to upload as a logo. DIY forever!

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No More Baduy Days: Just Comfy & Cute

Back in high school and college, I used to dress so baduy as I was trying to be trendy or fashionable. That’s why, when I started becoming more conscious about how I look, I realized I feel more confident when I just wear what’s comfortable but still looks put-together.

Now, I go for pieces that aren’t trendy but have that “common sense” kind of fashion… simple, classic, and wearable. I’m not a fashionista, so I don’t shop here and there for outfits. I usually stick to basics, plain colors, and timeless styles. I avoid super colorful or printed clothes… unless it’s Barbie or Barbie pink! Always an exception

Sometimes my friends gift me clothes too, which I really appreciate!

This is what I wore for a chill day at the mall and to gorge at Vikings Buffet. I love that I can enjoy more food now without feeling restricted, thanks to working out regularly. Still working on toning my body, but I’m glad I get to enjoy good, healthy food. Plus the occasional treat because, hey, it’s cheat day!